EQUALITY

We all wanted to be treated equal.
PAKIKISAMA is rooted in the intrinsic Filpino value of pakikigkapwa-tao. It refers to one’s desire to be treated as an equal. It is translated into acts of helping, sharing, and cooperating with others. A Filipino expects that the consideration he shows to others will be reciprocated. Nevertheless, this value also conjures up negative scenes of wild drunken orgies, profligate living, and consorting with dregs of society.
Hey, Pamela,” Sebastian called one Monday afternoon, vigorously waving his hand to emphasize his point.” You were unanimously chosen to be the pianist of the choir that will represent our school in a friendly competition with other high schools two Sundays from now. I act as the leader.”
“I’m so glad,” Pamela answered. “When the first practice?”
“Tomorrow after class in the music room. Our principal and music teacher will be our coaches,” Sebastian told her.
“Great! I’ll be there.” Pamela was ecstatic.
The first practice day was spent discussing he choreography, attire, and regular practice schedule. Opinions varied.
“I have second thoughts about practicing every night,” Sandra commented. We have lessons to study and homework to attend to.”
“But this will be for two weeks,” Sebastian replied. “We have to make sacrifices if we want to win.”
“Do we really have to wear uniforms? They’re expensive,” Tatiana remarked. “And besides, can we find a seamstress and tailor who can beat the deadline?”
“Nothing’s impossible,” Pamela answered. “I’ll see that.”
“How abut our transportation?” joined in Joy.
“I’ll ask Dad to make available two of our vehicles,” volunteered Arielle.
“I will ask Dad, too, to let us use ours,” Gabriel offered. “That will be enough for all of us, I guess.”
I’ll take charge of the snacks,” said Carl.
Sebastian thanked the members for their kindness.
The group practice also ran smoothly. Not one member was absent. Even their coaches were with them all the way.
“You know what I like this group?” Sebastian whispered to Pamela after the practice that Sunday night. “We are like one happy family. Everyone knows the real meaning of pakikisama. No jealousy, no complains, no bickering, no insulting.”
“I know,” Pamela replied. “That is why our practice has been going smoothly since day one.”
When the big day finally arrived, the group couldn’t contain its excitement. Every member came on time at the meeting place. Before they left for the contest, Sebastian made one last announcement: “I want to thank you for the sacrifices you made just to come and practice our piece. I am proud to have you as a members. Above all, I am proud that everyone know the value of pakikisama. In a group such as this, not only is talent of value but pakikisama as well. Thank you so much.”
The group nodded in agreement to their leader’s view. They know that pakikisama, as much as talent, is very important in any group, in any occasion, at all times.
In everything we do, we must learn how to be fair and equal.